The Biblical Counseling Movement – Introduction

This chapter introduces the history and significance of the biblical counselling movement associated with Jay Adams. Adams crossed swords with the established practice of referring members of the church to psychiatric and psychological experts without trying to take care of “their own.” That is, psychiatry replaced the pastorate’s jurisdiction over personal problems.

Marriage Matters – Person or Object, Honour or Manipulate?

Do you see a person or an object when you look at your spouse? Chapter 6 help readers to diagnose and evaluate their own most basic attitudes towards their spouses. It continues by demonstrating how manipulation can destroy a marriage. In a following section the chapter focuses on what it means to honour your spouse.

What Do You Think of Me? Why Do I Care? – Somebody Is Watching

This chapter considers a common problem: the fear of others’ opinion of you. People want to be noticed, and want other people's respect. People have a desire for acceptance as well as a fear of rejection. This chapter provides examples of these things as part of a discussion on what constitutes an unhealthy desire for acceptance.