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Pastor and his wife and family

A Pastor's Wife: The Toughest Job on the Planet

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  • Edward T. Welch

A pastor's wife feels the weight of criticism or mistreatment of her husband just as much if not more than he does. This article considers why, and several ways to respond.

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Counsel for Office-Bearers’ Wives

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  • Jeannette Byl

This article considers the role of the wife of an office-bearer.

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Ten Habits to Help a Pastor Stay Married and in Ministry

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  • Brian Croft

This article offers ten things for a pastor to consider that will aid his marriage and his ministry.

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Striking the Balance: Shepherding the Family and the Flock (Part 2)

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  • Hershael York

This article discusses how a pastor can aim for a balance in shepherding his family and his flock, with special consideration to family life. It calls the pastor to be a joy to live with, to invest his time instead of spending it, and including his family in ministry tasks.

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Striking the Balance: Shepherding the Family and the Flock (Part 1)

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  • Hershael York

This article considers the importance of pastors shepherding not only the flock but also their family. It advises on how to make the Word of God central in family life.

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Balancing Family and Ministry, Part 1: Priority and Capacity

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  • Heath Lambert

How should a pastor balance his time between his family and ministry? This article considers what the Bible prioritizes, and encourages pastors to reckon with how much ministry they can handle.

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Pastor, Love Your Wife

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  • Dave Furman

This article offers some encouragement for a pastor to love his wife by first walking with God.

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How Could I Ever Be a Pastor's Wife?

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  • Patricia Clawson

What does being a pastor's wife involve? The author of this article is the wife of a pastor who speaks about her role in supporting her husband in his calling as minister. She encourages other pastors' wives to not be afraid or intimidated by the task.

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Mutual Encouragement as Husband and Wife in Pastoral Ministry

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  • Brian H. Moore

This article is a help for pastors and their wives to consider and evaluate the function of their marriage in the midst of a busy work schedule in the pastoral ministry.

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Women in the Pastorate

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  • Michael G. Smith

This article is about the wife of the pastor and her relation to and function in the congregation. Her place and task in the family is also discussed.

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Your Pastor's Wife

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  • Carmen Black

This article is about the wife of pastor and her relation to and function in the congregation. The article looks at her service in the church and her place in the family.

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How Should a Pastor Spend His Lord's Day While on Vacation

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  • Brian Croft

During the vacation of the pastor, how should he spend his Lord's Day? This article explains that he should attend a church, not preach, and be with his family.

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How Much of a Pastor's Vacation Time Should He Use?

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  • Brian Croft

How should a pastor use his vacation? This article explains that he should use his vacation for himself, his family and the church, and therefore, he must use all his vacation.

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Nine Ways Pastors Let Ministry Harm Their Marriage

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  • Chuck Lawless

As a pastor, you must not let ministry harm your marriage. How can you keep the balance between marriage and ministry? Avoid these nine ways that pastors let their ministry harm their marriage.

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Two Lies Every Pastor's Wife Needs to Stop Believing

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  • Nikki Daniel

This article highlights two illusions that the wife of a pastor needs to stop believing, that ministry will be free of hardship, and having deep friendships both inside and outside the local church is unimportant.

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Transition and the Pastor's Wife

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  • Erin Wheeler

This article considers what trusting and obeying God looks like for a pastor and his wife in a season of transition from one location to another.

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Balancing Family and Ministry, Part 2: Situations, Seasons, and Accountability

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  • Heath Lambert

This article gives further thought to how pastors can strike the balance between family and ministry. It gives thought to unique situations in one's family life, seasons of life, and accountability to know how the pastor is doing in this area of balancing.

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Vacation for Pastors Who Won't Take One

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  • Jeramie Rinne

How should a pastor approach his vacation and preaching schedule? Should a pastor rest from preaching? There are reasons why there must a vacation for the pastor, and this article explains those reasons.

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Ministers and Money

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  • David P. Murray

Often the pastors salary is less than the average salary in the congregation. This article explains the ways in which this can create bitterness in the pastor and his family, and goes on to explain how to kill covetousness and discontentment.

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What Pastors Shouldn’t Tell Their Wives: The Dangers of Too Much Transparency

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  • R. Scott Clark

Keeping confidentiality is a requirement for every pastor. So what can a pastor share with his wife? A pastor may tell his wife what he would tell other members of the congregation, but no more. This article explains why.

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Pastoring Your Family

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  • Jason Helopoulos

You cannot pastor your church well if you are not pastoring your family well. Pastoring your family is the first thing expected from you as a pastor. This article suggests six ways you can do this.

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Minister’s Wife

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  • Julia Jones

There are pressures that affect the pastor's wife in relation to her husband's work. This article discusses two types of such pressures: self-induced and circumstantial.

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How Much Should a Pastor Tell His Wife?

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  • Brian Croft, Cara Croft

Should a pastor share the issues of the church with his wife? If so, how much? This article answers this question from the perspectives of both a pastor's and a pastor's wife. It seeks to clarify what it means to keep confidentiality as a pastor.

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Nine Secrets Your Pastor’s Wife Wishes You Knew

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  • Christina Stolaas

If your pastor's wife was to share with you things she wished you knew, what would they be? This article shares nine of those issues lying at the heart of many pastors' wives.

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Twelve Reasons Pastors' Wives Are Lonely

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  • Thom S. Rainer

Pastors' wives often experience a life full of loneliness. Why is that so? Listen to different pastors' wives give twelve reasons for their loneliness.

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Seven Suggestions for Pastors and Pastor Spouses to Find True Friends

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  • Ron Edmondson

Pastoral ministry can be lonely, and finding true friends as a pastor is not easy either. What can a pastor and his spouse do to find true friends to share their lives with? This article makes seven suggestions.

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Six Ways to Serve Your Pastor's Wife on Sunday

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  • Ryan Huguley

The church can enslave the pastor's wife by laying unbiblical expectations upon her. This article explains that understanding the biblical expectations for the pastor's wife will help the church in serving her better every Sunday.

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Spurgeon on the Minister's Wife

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  • Geoff Thomas

Read this article for a sobering yet encouraging view on the role of the minister's wife.

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Reflections from a Seasoned Pastor's Wife

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  • Magwen Davies

This article shares wisdom on how to live as the wife of a pastor.

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The Minister’s Wife

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  • Maurice Roberts

This article looks at the role the minister’s wife plays in enabling her husband to fulfil his call in the ministry.

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The Privilege of the Pastor’s Wife

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  • Tim Challies

Is it a privilege to be a pastor's wife? If you consider the qualifications for being a pastor as outlined in 1 Timothy 3, then there are six privileges of being a pastor's wife. The article considers them.

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Who delivered up Jesus to die? Not Judas, for money; not Pilate, for fear; not the Jews, for envy; but the Father, for love! Octavius Winslow
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